If you’ve ever avoided the camera because you feel awkward or think you’re not photogenic, this one’s for you. Here’s the truth: nobody’s born knowing how to pose, and feeling great in front of the camera isn’t about looking a certain way—it’s about embracing who you are. Let’s dive into five simple, effective ways to boost your confidence and enjoy your next photo session!
1. Wear Something That Makes You Feel Amazing
Forget about what’s trendy or what you think you’re “supposed” to wear. Your favorite outfit—the one that makes you feel unstoppable—is always the right choice. When you feel good in what you’re wearing, it shows in every photo. Whether it’s a cozy sweater, a flowy dress, or a power suit, your confidence will shine through. I always feel my best in jeans and a t-shirt– a classic look!
2. Focus on How You Feel, Not How You Look
It’s easy to fixate on how you think you look, but here’s a pro tip: the best photos capture emotion, not perfection. Think about a happy memory, laugh at something ridiculous, or just let yourself enjoy the moment. When you focus on feeling good, your natural expressions will create photos you’ll love.
3. Trust Your Photographer
A good photographer isn’t just there to snap pictures; they’re there to guide you and make you feel at ease. You don’t need to know what to do or how to pose—that’s my job! Relax, let me gently direct you, and trust that I’ll capture you in the best light (literally and figuratively).
4. Don’t Overthink Your “Flaws”
We all have things we’re self-conscious about, but here’s the thing: what you see as a “flaw” is often something others find beautiful. Your smile lines? Proof of all the times you’ve laughed. That birthmark? Completely unique to you. Celebrate the details that make you, you.
5. Embrace the Real You
Forget the idea of looking “perfect.” The real magic happens when you’re just yourself. Let your personality take center stage—whether you’re silly, serious, or somewhere in between. Authenticity beats perfection every time.
A quick note: With my photography sessions, there’s absolutely no pressure to share your photos or have them exist digitally. I work exclusively with instant film (like Instax Square—a modern ode to the classic Polaroid), so your photos are tangible, one-of-a-kind keepsakes. They’re yours to keep private, cherish, or share—it’s entirely up to you.
So, if you’ve been avoiding the camera, let’s change that. Let’s capture images of you as you are—confident, real, and completely unforgettable. You’ve got this!